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I don't know what people will think about this, but:

So I just watched a documentary called The perfect vagina, looking at how girls feel about what they have. I have honestly NEVER thought about it before... But now it's got me wondering,
What do people consider as the perfect vagina?
Of course we all know they come in different shapes, sizes etc, but what do people think ..
When I think of a vagina I think of shaven, with the vulva only visible a little, since that's all you see when you learn in sex education really. I don't even know what mine looks like really.. I've never cared. But I'm realizing that people do get made fun of for something that the general public can't even see. I don't understand.
Do people often get made fun of for their vagina's? Why would people do that?
Honestly, I didn't even know your vagina changed with puberty, why don't they teach us that?
I guess I feel that mine still looks, young? If that makes sense.

If anyone feels like responding.. I'm wondering..
Have you ever considered what your vagina looks like?
Guys, do you actually take notice to how we look down there?
Have you ever been so attracted to a girl, but then saw her vagina and suddenly got unattracted to her?
Do you think labiaplasties should even exist? Girl's as young as 16 have gotten them, should there be a higher age limit?

Honestly, yeah I've seen different looking vaginas, and I've never thought twice about it really. I didn't know it was that big of a deal to people.

I'm just curious to what other people think of vagina's.
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CeeAyBee Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
The perfect vagina is one that is healthy, happy, and content. The rest of the body and mind could take a lesson from that.
russellcattle Featured By Owner May 17, 2014

"What is the perfect vagina? "

This is a philosphical question, and since all of Western philosophy consists of a series of footnotes to Plato, according to Alfred North Whitehead, it is to Plato we must turn. 

According to Plato's Theory of Forms (or Theory of Ideas), the perfect anything, whether vagina, soul, table, weed-whacker, etc., exists as an abstraction in its own metaphysical realm. 

All the vaginas here in the material world that have ever existed, or ever will exist, are more or less approximations or copies of the Ideal Vagina.  

So, is it possible for us to have knowledge of such Ideal forms?  Can the intellect truly grasp the noumena behind the phenomena that is know as "Vagina"?   

Maybe, if the Sage of Konigsberg is to be believed.  I refer to the philosopher Immanuel Kant, whose last name, if given the proper German pronunciation, happens to sound very much like an English slang word for "vagina".   Coincidence?  I think not!

simondragon Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2014
Personally I like big inner lips that poke out and say "lick me" (sometimes called outies). Shaven or landing strip are both good. But they are all good really.
nice example…
toesuckerlv Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
The perfect vagina? It doesn't exist!
But of all the cute pussy I've seen ,and had, i love them shaved clean, with no hair at all. I shave too, so I know it can b a pain, but so worth the trouble.
The best thing I love about pussy is the taste! There is nothing better than a 69 when she sits up on your face and gently grinds that sweet spot on your face! The sweet sticky cum running out of her right onto my tounge, & down my throat.., I can do it for @ least an hour, I would go longer ,but either my tounge is tired or she is so worked up she can't take anymore lol.
I love pussy! So yummy!
MeezerMan Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
I think the perfect vagina belongs to my wife! (Check my gallery) I've fingered, sucked, licked, vibratored, tickled, whipped, tongued, dildoed, slapped, bit, lubricated, and kissed it hundreds of times. My most vibrant fantasy is to have another person - man or woman - finger or suck my wife's cunt, making her writhe and squirm and moan until she cums again and again.

Either veiled and covered, or exposed naked to the sky, it can arouse both man and woman. It is her ultimate vulnerability.

You can fondle a woman's breasts, and she could still maintain control of her emotions. But when you have her pussy, she is doomed to whatever actions are imposed upon her. It's essentially what makes a woman a woman. It IS her sex.
ixDarknesss Featured By Owner Dec 19, 2013
Lol The Perfect Vagina. Here let me offer a very simply opinion put from someone with alot of experience, no bullshitting, and the best part it is, Im actually not an asshole, but to the point. It doesnt really matter what it looks like, to me and alot of the people I know. The feel of it does yes. Having a "Sexy, or cute, etc Vag" isnt important, its a bonus. I prefer when the lips of them arent long and longer on one side than the other dramatically, and its "Firm". Obviously it has to also be tight, and tightness isnt just measured by you, its also how big the guy is. A guy cant say youre loose if he has a fuckin twizzler dick. I mean, yeah Ive seen some "Ugly" Vaginas and have had conversations with friends about that mutual sex partner and wed laugh and joke but it was never serious, we were by all means joking. THEN AGAIN, everybody is different. Some people have fetishes for that, like obsessions with oral and they spend alot of time looking at it and being close to it so thats why they might become unattracted but Ive never known anyone whod lose love or a good relationship over it. This is a good question though. Btw, when you get older, it wont happen for a while lol, but itll start to sag down and your walls will dry out, its actually a big factor in divorces, same with erectile dysfunction. Oh yeah and some people, like to keep a patch of hair above their vag, some even shape it, lol one of my exes had a thin nautical star made of hair, it was actually pretty badass that she can do that with a razor.
CuddlesnCuffs Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm a man, and I've always thought of the vagina as being yucky, an always unattractive part of the body. Both in person and seeing it in pictures. I avoid penetration during sex, or at least put it off to the last possible moment. Still, there is a kind of value in it, knowing that you have access to the most intimate and sexual and hotly contested part of the female body. I find the face, eyes, hair, neck and abdomen much more attractive.

That said, there is a PROFOUND difference between seeing a girl naked in a picture and seeing her naked in person. In person, there is an emotional connection, a sort of love and adoration that I feel that completely ignores any physical imperfections or any aspects that I don't consider ideal. The fact that someone is there in front of me, in their most mentally and emotionally vulnerable state, has a huge emotional impact on me.
jaiden26 Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2013
I would have to say yes to both, I do take notice at the appearance of a girl's vagina, and have been turned off by a few of them even though I was attracted to the rest of the girl.  That being said, I have never and would never kick a girl out of bed based solely on the appearance of her genitals.

I prefer shaven and, how do I describe this, tight looking?'s nice when there aren't loose labias, or as another poster put it, when it doesn't look like roast beef.  To be honest though, the only thing the appearance of a vagina will stop me from doing is going down on it.
kiwinuck Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2013
for me, I think all vaginas are beautiful.  I've seen them in all shapes, sizes, and a few colours, and as long as they are clean, they are beautiful.  I prefer a little hair or shaved, but that's just a preference.  As to lips, I think a bit of meat on the lips is great (a few naughty things to be done... ;) ) Personally I don't think labiaplasties should be cosmetic surgery, sure their may be a few exceptions, but on the whole as comparable to nose jobs.  Everyone is unique, embrace it
BondagePublishing Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2013
I can honestly say that that is the weirdest question I have heard today.

I have never thought about that before, but I guess My thought of a perfect vagina would be one that the woman in question(I'm a man) is happy with.
Whyte-Man Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013
I had a gay friend once tell me that he doesn't like them because "they all look like roast beef" XD
CaveElf Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I never realized there could be a cute vagina or an ugly one. I just don't like ones that are too hairy. All that hair gets in the way and can be very abrasive let alone the fact that they can get stuck in your teeth.
Wegda Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2012
Hm, I´m a man and for me, it doesn´t care how a vagina looks like.
Big, small, big or small lips, brown skin, thick, thin... no problem. The only important thing for me is, that there´s no long hair. Or too much hair. If possible, I like it shaved.
Also piercings are no problem - neither they turn me on or off (of course you´ve a very nice piercing there, and if you were my girlfriend, I would love it).
And if there are also more piercings in the vagina lips - no problem, too (would give more fun for some "light" BDSM play, if the girl wants it).

For other man (and woman) there are of course other things which are important.

Just my opinion :-)

BTW, your vagina looks very nice for me, because you´re shaved, so I give it a 100% match for me :-)

Thx for showing and thx for telling your opinion about "the perfect vagina" with your point of view.
mglfrps Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2012
What do I think of vaginas? I like them.

They are good for making babies and delivering them. You urinate from them and let out the menstrual flow and disgusting infection stuff. Boy, are they great for all kinda things including hiding stuff.

My friend taught me to put my finger up a vagina, smell my finger and then I will know if it is a good idea to lick it that particular time.

ShiftySleez Featured By Owner May 11, 2012
i didnt even know that girls god plastic surgury done there untill i looked up that word you used. and i have found then in smoe cases i can understand why they would. such as this one [link] i prefer the one on the right

i always take notice of what a girl looks like down their as it is important to be able to read a girls reactions to what you are doing, i find my preference when it comes to the shape and size of vagina's is dependent on the person i am with, essencially each to their own really. vagina's can suit the person they are attatched to or not. some guys like the big lips and some dont, some like a girl shaven and some dont, i prefer just trimmed honestly. but as i said for the actual vagina itself so long as it looks right and natural the person i dont care... hoever if it is freakish with one lip alot bigger then the other or something like that i admit i may be put off....
Blackatog Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012
My Girlfriend have a big Labium. I have no problem with this, but she have the problem, that she has often pain from (head)hairs in her panties or just rubbing in tight trousers.

The real beauty comes from inside (I think). When a girl is happy with her body, then she will more smile and will show more from her body without shame. That is more important than a perfect vagina.

The only thing that is important for me, is that the Vagina is shaved (or has short hairs). Sexual I never feel a different between Vaginas.

Could at be, that young girls (under the shower at the air pool or at the school) bullying each other for their vaginas?
Enterthephenix Featured By Owner Apr 20, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
t is subjective, someone prefer the big hairy and of the other one prefer the shaved girls quite cute.
For me the best Vagina is your...
You're very beautiful and your i'm in love of your sex
EVOBiohazard Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
As long as it's shaved, doesn't smell like fish and the lips don't make it look like a butterfly (flower) I don't really care :D
Atsushi-Man Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2012
As long as they're fresh and clean, it doesn't matter what it looks like. Unless you want me to go over it with a fine toothed comb. lmao
ObservantObserver Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2012
I think that there are pretty ones and ugly ones. What's pretty to one is ugly to another. There's no real sense in trying to find the perfect one... since, "perfection is in the eye of the beholder"
jlmei Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It's very rare, but sometimes a girl will have disproportionally big beef curtains and that is just unesthetical. Other than that vaginas look pretty much the same to me.
DartPerson Featured By Owner Dec 15, 2011
i really cant describe what im trying to say but i hope you get the idea
DartPerson Featured By Owner Dec 15, 2011
i really wouldnt make fun or say anything to a girl based on her vagina but i would prefer one that is not very "detailed" if that makes sense
Byakuhan Featured By Owner Dec 14, 2011  Hobbyist Filmographer
To me it does not matter what a girl I'm with has for a vagina. However, just like anything, I do have a preference for one lol. Small labia, and not overly "meaty" is my preferred. I like it so when a girl is standing up you get to see just enough of her poking out from under the labia. Lol I hope this is making sense....

As far as self confidence goes I would say don't worry about what your's looks like. If a guy really has the balls to break up with you only because he thinks your vagina is ugly than that man is a total ass hole. lol I mean how selfish you have to be. Just be thankful that a girl would share something that personal and intimate with you in the first place.
ShiftySleez Featured By Owner May 11, 2012
totaly agree mate
Byakuhan Featured By Owner May 12, 2012  Hobbyist Filmographer
thanks bro
jessthemullet Featured By Owner Dec 14, 2011
I think that even though it's an extremely personal subject, that people really should be taught a little more about it. Most of people's complaints or things they dislike seem to stem from not knowing what to expect, or having certain expectations. I can understand that some girls might feel self-conscious about it, but labiaplasty seems like an extreme and unnecessary procedure to me. I would think it has to effect the sensitivity (making it a lot less fun for everybody involved), and I can only imagine it's extremely painful to heal.

As far as my personal opinion, though I can count on one hand the number of girls I've been with, I can say that it really doesn't make a difference to me. I try to accept every aspect of the girl I'm with, and making a big deal out of something like that seems just as superficial as finding something to nitpick about her breast size or the shape of her ass. If you're with a guy that really cares, it shouldn't ever be an issue. Most of the guys I've heard of, that make a big deal about it, just haven't ever really had much of an education when it comes to that.
alphazion Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
The kind I don't like in art are the ones where the artist either doesn't try (and it just looks like a ragged hole) or draws too much detail (and the labia are all flapping around like the mouth of a Predator alien). I like 'em smallish and pretty. FA user Vallhund does them really well :)
Beauty-inthe-nitesky Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
I just dont know how mine would be described
ShiftySleez Featured By Owner May 11, 2012
so take a picture of it and ask for opinions on it relevent to this journal.
Johny-Fire-Staff Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
Vaginas are good.
*voices what every (straight)man thinks* :P
Drocpen Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
I'm with you. I've never paid a whole lot of attention to it. I some guys get all crazy about it, though. Don't get me wrong, now. I'm glad it's there, but I just don't get all worked up about it, either way!
SpiritualHeartBurn Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011  Student Digital Artist
I'm a virgin, i believe truly it's all how you feel about it. Usually everybody cares more about, how other people feel. Unfortunately that's how people react, thank god for clothes. I don't care too much, if you truly love somebody, you wouldn't care about a what the world thinks you care about the person you love as a whole.
rawrxxxkitty Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
yeah i dont think people care what they look like sweety dont get worried <3
KingDRagonZero Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
I'd be lucky to have a girlfriend, no use in getting picky over the appearance of their vagina.
Yumeshunketsu777 Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
I....I wasn't expecting this kind of journal to appear ^_^;;;

And honestly...I don't know. I'm to much of a virgin to give a good answer to this ^///^;;;
SportsLunatic Featured By Owner Dec 14, 2011
Don't sweat it! I'm at a loss myself! :D
I was.
KevNC Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
If it feels good, it's perfect.
Beauty-inthe-nitesky Featured By Owner Dec 13, 2011
What makes a vagina feel different?:P
Blackatog Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2012
Didn't have you pain by sex? Feel you something when your partner is by your vagina? Did you come, when your partner plays with your Vagina?

Then it feels good (my opinion). The Man always feel good (also my opinion)
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